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Slow Down; Stay With Christmas. It’s Allowed

December 27, 2021


Silent night . . . holy night . . .

The Nativity of Christ is frequently presented to us as a silent thing, and even I’ve referred to it as such. In some long-ago piece, I describe it being “as if God had put his hand over the wails and sobs of a suffering world and said, ‘Sshh, it will be alright . . .’”

But of course, Christ’s coming was no silent affair. Between the bells of the shepherds and the angelic songs of the heralds, between the braying animals and the crackle of the veil being rent, all around, how could it be? The night was certainly holy . . . but it likely wasn’t silent.

Silence, of which we sing so wistfully at Midnight Mass, is at an all-time premium at Christmas; it is so difficult to find a quiet night, let alone sit within one and become immersed in it, that the possibility of a seasonal soothing of the heart—a quietening of the grief of the world—seems the stuff of illusion and myth.

Christmas has, in too many ways, become the equivalent of an overdone theme-park vacation. By its end, one is knock-kneed with exhaustion and desperately in need of a genuine opportunity to rest.

A Christmas snow, if one is lucky enough to get one, does wonders to cull the silence. A few inches of white powder brings an unusual and welcome softening of sound. In cities, the hum of traffic is muffled; in the suburbs even the broom of the ubiquitous snowblower is reduced to a faint and unintrusive whir, one that remains mostly beneath the surface of one’s awareness.

In such a silence, if you have turned off the television and tempted your child away from his games with a good book, you can hear other things: the chatter and call of cardinals who have found the birdseed; the crack of a log in the fire; hot coffee being poured into a cup; the ticking of your last nondigital clock; the rhythmic breathing of a tired child (or parent) who has dozed while reading; the soft thud of a book sliding to the floor.

You can hear life, forced into a slow-down; life less deliberate; life lived as it was for centuries, before the busy inventiveness of the last six or seven decades; life acquiescent to uncontrollable nature, and hunkered down.

We have allowed silence to become a gift forgotten, one we only consent to unwrap when all of our alternative bows and strings have been unraveled, and our diversions have been utterly played out. Our inability to be silent puts our minds and our souls at a disadvantage, because it robs us of the ability to wonder, and if we are not wondering at the impossible perfection of the world in its creation—if we are not wondering at spinning atoms and Incarnations, especially at this season—then we are lost to humility, and to experiencing gratitude.

And without gratitude, we cannot develop a reasoned capacity for joy.

One of the most attractive things about G.K. Chesterton was the unending sense of surprised delight he had for all creation, for the world and everything in it. He found newspaper ink to be as wonderful as beach glass which—it went without saying—was as marvelous to him as any good cigar. He was as awestruck and grateful for the world as a teenager in love, and he wondered about the unconditional gift of days that God had given him, and wrote about that in his brief poem “Evening”:

Here dies another day
During which I have had eyes, ears, hands
And the great world round me;
And with tomorrow begins another.
Why am I allowed two?

“Why am I allowed two?”—a great and humbling question in an entitled and engineered age.

Chesterton was joyful, because he was grateful; he was grateful because even within his busy life, he was allowed the leisure of silence, with which he was able to wonder. And to paraphrase St. Gregory of Nyssa, only wonder leads to knowing.

If we cannot wonder, how can we presume to know the timeless and eternal God? Without wonder, how may we know ourselves? How do we remember that time is a construct to which we must not become enslaved?

By what means shall we practice wondering into knowing when we are so deeply immersed in the seasonal pronouncements of Madison Avenue, where Christmas begins in early November and ends on December 26, whence commences Valentine’s Day; when in all times and seasons the media message is a weirdly incongruous (and John Lennonesque) amalgam of “be here now” and “serve yourself.”

Well, all right then! For 2022, resolve to be here now and to serve yourself, but do it in this most excellent way: by cultivating silence and overcoming time within one of the classic disciplines of daily prayer—where the pulse of the Psalms calms the breath, the pockets of silence center the spirit, and the liturgical calendar frees us from the shackles of time.

For many Christians, this means the Liturgy of the Hours—a gift that, unwrapped and utilized, trains us in the procurement of silence and lures a time-out-of-joint into lustrous submission.

And it reminds us of the real time in which we live, or should be living.

Though the commerce-exhausted secular holiday is past for another year, Christmas is far from over. Rather, in the breviary, its prayers are continued, renewed each morning and again at Vespers: “In the beginning, before time began, the Word was God; today he is born, the Savior of the world.”

The mystery, the wonder, the gladness: it has not ended. Each day in the Octave of Christmas, the words are cast again upon the air, resonating like ripples out into the world and reclaiming time from its insistent march away, always away, from what is before us.

In the Liturgy of the Hours, we are invited to stay, and to wonder, and to marvel, and to not slip back into the rush, the illusion, the purposeful march away. In our silent wondering we find our knowing, and in our knowing, we find real joy.

This piece was originally published on December 26, 2019 in the Word on Fire Blog